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Emotions and Feelings in Punjabi: Happy, Sad, Angry, Tired, Scared — and How to Say "I Feel"

By Simranjeet Aulakh·October 26, 2026·8 min read

Happy is khush, sad is udaas, angry is gussa, tired is thakia, scared is darr. Forty feeling words with Gurmukhi and pronunciation, plus the grammar nobody explains: Punjabi says "anger is coming to me" (mainu gussa aa riha hai), not "I am angry". With the phrases couples and families actually use: I'm proud of you, don't worry, I miss you.

The basic feelings in Punjabi are khush (ਖ਼ੁਸ਼, happy), udaas (ਉਦਾਸ, sad), gussa (ਗੁੱਸਾ, anger), thakia / thakki (ਥੱਕਿਆ / ਥੱਕੀ, tired, m / f), darr (ਡਰ, fear) and pareshaan (ਪਰੇਸ਼ਾਨ, worried). But Punjabi has two different grammars for feeling, and learners mix them up: some feelings you are (main khush haan, I am happy) and many feelings happen to you (mainu gussa aa riha hai, "anger is coming to me"; mainu darr lagda hai, "fear strikes me"). This guide gives you both lists, the words for comforting someone, and the lines that matter in a relationship — mainu tere te maan hai, I'm proud of you.

Two Ways to Feel in Punjabi

PatternHow it worksExamples
I am … (adjective + haan)The feeling describes you, like "tall" would. The adjective takes -a for a man, -i for a woman (where it changes at all).Main khush haan (I'm happy) · Main thakia haan / thakki haan (I'm tired, m / f) · Tusi udaas kyon ho? (why are you sad?)
To me … is / comes / strikes (mainu + noun + verb)The feeling is a thing that arrives. Used for anger, fear, sleep, hunger, cold, shyness, worry, missing someone.Mainu gussa aa riha hai (I'm getting angry) · Mainu darr lagda hai (I'm scared) · Mainu neend aa rahi hai (I'm sleepy)

The second pattern uses the object forms mainu, tuhanu, sanu, uhnu — see Punjabi pronouns for the full set.

Feelings You Are

EnglishPunjabi (m / f)GurmukhiExample
HappyKhushਖ਼ੁਸ਼Main bahut khush haan — I'm very happy
SadUdaasਉਦਾਸOh udaas hai — she's sad
Upset, displeased (with someone)Naraazਨਾਰਾਜ਼Tusi mere naal naraaz ho? — Are you upset with me?
TiredThakia / thakkiਥੱਕਿਆ / ਥੱਕੀMain thakki hoyi haan — I'm tired (f)
Worried, troubledPareshaanਪਰੇਸ਼ਾਨPareshaan na ho — don't be troubled
Surprised, astonishedHairaanਹੈਰਾਨMain hairaan haan — I'm amazed
Embarrassed, ashamedSharmindaਸ਼ਰਮਿੰਦਾMain sharminda haan — I'm sorry / ashamed
Alone, lonelyIkalla / ikalliਇਕੱਲਾ / ਇਕੱਲੀOh ikalla mehsoos karda hai — he feels lonely
CalmShaantਸ਼ਾਂਤShaant raho — stay calm
Restless, anxiousBechainਬੇਚੈਨMain bechain haan — I'm restless
BusyRuzhia / ruzhiਰੁੱਝਿਆ / ਰੁੱਝੀMain ruzhia hoya haan — I'm busy
Fed up, boredAkkia / akkiਅੱਕਿਆ / ਅੱਕੀMain akk gaya — I'm fed up
ReadyTiyaarਤਿਆਰMain tiyaar haan — I'm ready
Fine, okayTheekਠੀਕMain theek haan — I'm fine
Carefree, greatMastਮਸਤSab mast hai — everything's great
SickBimaarਬਿਮਾਰOh bimaar hai — he's ill

Feelings That Happen to You

EnglishPunjabiGurmukhiLiterally
I'm getting angryMainu gussa aa riha haiਮੈਨੂੰ ਗੁੱਸਾ ਆ ਰਿਹਾ ਹੈanger is coming to me
I'm scaredMainu darr lagda haiਮੈਨੂੰ ਡਰ ਲੱਗਦਾ ਹੈfear strikes me
I'm sleepyMainu neend aa rahi haiਮੈਨੂੰ ਨੀਂਦ ਆ ਰਹੀ ਹੈsleep is coming to me
I'm hungryMainu bhukh lagi haiਮੈਨੂੰ ਭੁੱਖ ਲੱਗੀ ਹੈhunger has struck me
I'm thirstyMainu pyaas lagi haiਮੈਨੂੰ ਪਿਆਸ ਲੱਗੀ ਹੈthirst has struck me
I'm coldMainu thand lag rahi haiਮੈਨੂੰ ਠੰਢ ਲੱਗ ਰਹੀ ਹੈcold is striking me
I feel shy / embarrassedMainu sharam aundi haiਮੈਨੂੰ ਸ਼ਰਮ ਆਉਂਦੀ ਹੈshyness comes to me
I'm worriedMainu fikar haiਮੈਨੂੰ ਫ਼ਿਕਰ ਹੈworry is to me
I was hurt / saddenedMainu dukh hoyaਮੈਨੂੰ ਦੁੱਖ ਹੋਇਆsorrow happened to me
I was glad (to hear)Mainu khushi hoyiਮੈਨੂੰ ਖ਼ੁਸ਼ੀ ਹੋਈhappiness happened to me
I miss youMainu teri yaad aundi haiਮੈਨੂੰ ਤੇਰੀ ਯਾਦ ਆਉਂਦੀ ਹੈyour memory comes to me
I'm proud of youMainu tere te maan haiਮੈਨੂੰ ਤੇਰੇ 'ਤੇ ਮਾਣ ਹੈto me on you there is pride
That hurt / I felt badMainu bura laggaਮੈਨੂੰ ਬੁਰਾ ਲੱਗਾbad struck me
I liked it / it felt goodMainu changa laggaਮੈਨੂੰ ਚੰਗਾ ਲੱਗਾgood struck me
I was surprisedMainu hairaani hoyiਮੈਨੂੰ ਹੈਰਾਨੀ ਹੋਈsurprise happened to me
I can't settle / I'm homesickMera dil nahi lagdaਮੇਰਾ ਦਿਲ ਨਹੀਂ ਲੱਗਦਾmy heart doesn't attach
I feel like (doing …)Mera dil karda haiਮੇਰਾ ਦਿਲ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈmy heart does
I'm not in the moodMera mood nahi haiਮੇਰਾ ਮੂਡ ਨਹੀਂ ਹੈ—

With tusi (respectful) the possessive is tuhadi: Mainu tuhadi yaad aundi hai, Mainu tuhade te maan hai. The same construction gives "I love you" in Punjabi its variations.

Emotion Nouns

EnglishPunjabiGurmukhiPronunciation
Joy, happinessKhushiਖ਼ੁਸ਼ੀKHU-shee
Sorrow, painDukhਦੁੱਖdukh
AngerGussaਗੁੱਸਾGUS-saa
FearDarrਡਰdurr
LovePyaarਪਿਆਰpyaar
HatredNafratਨਫ਼ਰਤNUF-rut
HopeUmeedਉਮੀਦu-MEED
PrideMaanਮਾਣmaan
Shyness, shameSharamਸ਼ਰਮSHUR-um
WorryFikar / chintaਫ਼ਿਕਰ / ਚਿੰਤਾFIK-ur / CHIN-taa
SurpriseHairaaniਹੈਰਾਨੀhai-RAA-nee
Gratitude ("thank God")Shukarਸ਼ੁਕਰSHU-kur — Rabb da shukar hai
PatienceSabarਸਬਰSUB-ur
CourageHimmatਹਿੰਮਤHIM-mut
JealousyEerkha (colloquial: saadh)ਈਰਖਾ / ਸਾੜEER-khaa / saad
Peace of mindSukoonਸਕੂਨsu-KOON

Comforting and Encouraging Someone

EnglishPunjabiGurmukhi
Don't worryFikar na karoਫ਼ਿਕਰ ਨਾ ਕਰੋ
Everything will be fineSab theek ho jaavegaਸਭ ਠੀਕ ਹੋ ਜਾਵੇਗਾ
Stay strongHimmat rakhoਹਿੰਮਤ ਰੱਖੋ
Keep your spirits up (Sikh expression)Chardi kala vich rahoਚੜ੍ਹਦੀ ਕਲਾ ਵਿੱਚ ਰਹੋ
Don't cryRo naਰੋ ਨਾ
I'm with youMain tuhade naal haanਮੈਂ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਨਾਲ ਹਾਂ
It's okay, no problemKoi gall nahiਕੋਈ ਗੱਲ ਨਹੀਂ
Don't be angryGussa na karoਗੁੱਸਾ ਨਾ ਕਰੋ
I understand you (m / f speaker)Main tuhanu samajhda / samajhdi haanਮੈਂ ਤੁਹਾਨੂੰ ਸਮਝਦਾ / ਸਮਝਦੀ ਹਾਂ
Forgive meMainu maaf kar deoਮੈਨੂੰ ਮਾਫ਼ ਕਰ ਦਿਓ
You did really wellTusi bahut vadhiya kitaਤੁਸੀਂ ਬਹੁਤ ਵਧੀਆ ਕੀਤਾ
Well done!Shabash!ਸ਼ਾਬਾਸ਼!
Calm downShaant ho jaoਸ਼ਾਂਤ ਹੋ ਜਾਓ

For a proper apology, see how to say sorry in Punjabi. If you're learning for a partner, these are the sentences that do the most work — more in Punjabi for partners.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do you say happy in Punjabi?

Khush (ਖ਼ੁਸ਼). "I am happy" is main khush haan; "happiness" is khushi; "be happy" is khush raho.

How do you say "I miss you" in Punjabi?

Mainu teri yaad aundi hai (ਮੈਨੂੰ ਤੇਰੀ ਯਾਦ ਆਉਂਦੀ ਹੈ) — literally "your memory comes to me". To an elder or respectfully: mainu tuhadi yaad aundi hai; "I miss you a lot": bahut yaad aundi hai.

How do you say "I'm angry" in Punjabi?

Mainu gussa aa riha hai (ਮੈਨੂੰ ਗੁੱਸਾ ਆ ਰਿਹਾ ਹੈ) — "anger is coming to me". "Don't be angry" is gussa na karo; "upset with someone" is naraaz.

How do you say "I'm proud of you" in Punjabi?

Mainu tere te maan hai (ਮੈਨੂੰ ਤੇਰੇ 'ਤੇ ਮਾਣ ਹੈ), or respectfully mainu tuhade te maan hai. Parents also say Shabash! — well done.

Say How You Feel in Punjabi

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